The number one thing people ask when they learn I am a psychologist is, “Are you reading my mind?” At first, I thought it was something people said at bars. Wrong. I have heard this from so many people in so many contexts. So I just started saying, “Yes. Yes I can read your mind. I learned it during my third year of grad school.” No, I’m not a psychic, though I can see where the confusion lies. In reality, therapy involves a great deal of vulnerability on the part of the